The idea for this blog came in when I shockingly received an SMS asking me whether I'm involve in some secret affair with someone's husband. It ended with a threat that if I don't speak the truth, I'd be in trouble. I was a little shocked..then the images of my friends who are married came into mind...not much of them and I don't know any of their wives. So I kinda narrowed down to 2. Don't really know how to figure out which one. OR it might just be a wrong number. Anyways, I don't feel threaten though since I'm not involve in any secret affairs. Already an understood statement, married guys...out of bound. The "M" word.
So, if you put urself in that wife's shoes...would you be confrontational with the husband and mistress? OR you would confront the mistress and not let your husband know? I don't seem to have any of my married guy friends asking me on whether their wives spoke to me...so if the SMS was really meant for me, the wife here chose the latter.
Why the mistress? Aren't the husbands at fault here? They are wrong at the first place for not being able to provide security for their wives. They are wrong for being with the mistress. They come up with thousand and one excuses for their involvement with the mistress and for a wife who desperately want to save the marriage would forgive and forget. Who gets the bad name in the end? You go figure....( With this said, I am to STRESS that I do not support the mistress and the husband)
So that's it for now. Kinda tired from my outstation trip. Will write again when I'm bored I guess.
Sunday, October 30, 2005
Sunday, October 23, 2005
Shopping...shopping...and...broke~!
Alriteyyy...when there was no one amongst my friends knew that I'd been blogging, it's okay to not blog for like 3 months or 3 years~!When I have the ONE reader ( Yes..it's you Zheng~!), he will be ther to remind me that I need to update it. Gee, thanks I guess, my first ever reader. Flattered .. :D
Anyways, it's been 11 days since the last blog. Nothing much happened. Told you my life was mundane and stuff I do, just bores any other living soul in this world...OH WAIT, I forgot the part bout me overspending the past week. Sigh, been suck into this tendency to SHOP~! My gosh, the past week, I had bought myself stuff that I don't really need. New pair of sandals which I don't think I'll wear much, thank goodness I did not go for the heels~! A new bag, a few new tops, a pair of jeans....this is excessive spending. NEED TO STOP~! Heck, my outstation claims for this month is so darn quiet. I practically used up all the claims in the shopping spree I got myself in...and it's not even CNY. It's Deepavali + Raya....I'm one lost fella who went shopping coz of one word : SALE~! It's crazy how this little voice in my head never said anything the past 22 years and decided to speak so loudly this year. It's slowly echoing in my head : sale, sale, sale , sale ...SALE~~!!!!! Weird...you know how you can always balance out the pros and cons in anything that you do? That word came and clouded all of that thought and it's like the devil taking over~!
And stuff in office, been kinda quiet too. But getting to know my malay colleagues, so been typing a lot of broken BM in YM lately. Kinda weird to ask me to write in BM nowadays. Even the other day when I was writing the police report for the accident, was kinda weird. My partner was driving the other day when a small rock kinda flew off from the front lorry and chipped one small portion of the windscreen of the car. Boss said must lodge a report, both of us head to the police station and it was story-time, although kinda hard to express it in BM, we ended up saying ( direct translation ): A speeding lorry went over a road filled with small rocks and therefore all rocks were flying and one of it hit our windscreen. Yea, sounded crappy and the policemen were laughing at the statement, but who cares, we just needed that report so we're off the hook.
Wohoo...yess~!! going to be outstation next week. Can't wait. Can't be sitting around in office too much. Far too dreadful to pass 8 hours staring at the PC with nothing much to do. If they give me the time off, I'll end up somewhere spending again~! Yea, was doing just that the last Friday. Went all the way up to Cyber to meet up my ex-colleagues during training for lunch. Well, meeting them was nice, lunch was free too. Nice bunch of ppl, at least there were more female engineers there than my working place now. :P But all attached and one is married recently.So are all the ppl in my workplace...except 2 senior engineers and one junior. Hmm..I guess I'm stopping for now. Next update, after my outstation trips. :D Adios~!
Anyways, it's been 11 days since the last blog. Nothing much happened. Told you my life was mundane and stuff I do, just bores any other living soul in this world...OH WAIT, I forgot the part bout me overspending the past week. Sigh, been suck into this tendency to SHOP~! My gosh, the past week, I had bought myself stuff that I don't really need. New pair of sandals which I don't think I'll wear much, thank goodness I did not go for the heels~! A new bag, a few new tops, a pair of jeans....this is excessive spending. NEED TO STOP~! Heck, my outstation claims for this month is so darn quiet. I practically used up all the claims in the shopping spree I got myself in...and it's not even CNY. It's Deepavali + Raya....I'm one lost fella who went shopping coz of one word : SALE~! It's crazy how this little voice in my head never said anything the past 22 years and decided to speak so loudly this year. It's slowly echoing in my head : sale, sale, sale , sale ...SALE~~!!!!! Weird...you know how you can always balance out the pros and cons in anything that you do? That word came and clouded all of that thought and it's like the devil taking over~!
And stuff in office, been kinda quiet too. But getting to know my malay colleagues, so been typing a lot of broken BM in YM lately. Kinda weird to ask me to write in BM nowadays. Even the other day when I was writing the police report for the accident, was kinda weird. My partner was driving the other day when a small rock kinda flew off from the front lorry and chipped one small portion of the windscreen of the car. Boss said must lodge a report, both of us head to the police station and it was story-time, although kinda hard to express it in BM, we ended up saying ( direct translation ): A speeding lorry went over a road filled with small rocks and therefore all rocks were flying and one of it hit our windscreen. Yea, sounded crappy and the policemen were laughing at the statement, but who cares, we just needed that report so we're off the hook.
Wohoo...yess~!! going to be outstation next week. Can't wait. Can't be sitting around in office too much. Far too dreadful to pass 8 hours staring at the PC with nothing much to do. If they give me the time off, I'll end up somewhere spending again~! Yea, was doing just that the last Friday. Went all the way up to Cyber to meet up my ex-colleagues during training for lunch. Well, meeting them was nice, lunch was free too. Nice bunch of ppl, at least there were more female engineers there than my working place now. :P But all attached and one is married recently.So are all the ppl in my workplace...except 2 senior engineers and one junior. Hmm..I guess I'm stopping for now. Next update, after my outstation trips. :D Adios~!
Wednesday, October 12, 2005
Things you see on the road...
WOoohooOooo .... been at work for 2 months plus and I've traveled half of Malaysia already! That's 7 out of 13 states. Well, since being the girl, I can only travel to Peninsular, so that would make 7 out of 11 then. Whoa, can't believe it too.
It's interesting what you get to see on the road. Besides the animals running around or strolling along the road, people driving in the car also has their own "activities". I just happen to see a guy reading while driving~! With his book on the steering and his earphone plugged in, he was cruising the highway...I wonder if the concentration is really that good and he could really multitask. My partner was eating her brownies while cruising the highway. All I could do was drink water while I drive. Not good at multitasking when driving, even tuning the radio will distract my concentration. :P Takes experience to do that I suppose...or I'm just that bad.
Talking bout animals...each site visit is like a visit to the "open zoo". The most common animals that I've seen are chickens, cows, goats and monkeys. These animals are always in sight. Other animals are like wild boars, goose, ducks, monitor lizards, dogs, cats, squirrels, snakes and eagle! Well, as much as I'd like to see them running around happily enjoying themselves, a lot of times I'd see them dead on the road resulted from been ran over by lorries or big trucks. Kinda sad, I was at this site the other day, I managed to avoid the lizard that decided to cross the road that one particular day. By the time I turned back, that poor lizard was already dead. Another round on the same road, the poor lizard was squashed already. All that happened in less than an hour~! So all animals that crosses the free way are at this high risk of death. Can't help all of it, but will try to avoid all that crosses path with me....BUT BUT....think I killed one lizard the other day. Felt really bad...but I seriously did not see it and it was too late to avoid it. Oh well, guess would need to be alert of that next time.
Besides animals and people, seen many quite breath-taking sights The seasides, the caves, the moutains, and the trees~! The Gua Musang trip was interesting. The caves, just magnificent! We've been on some sites that's along the South China Sea. Interesting also. Sites at the east coast. The kampung sites are also an eye-opener. Don't play-play. People stay in wooden houses but on one particular corner of their roof, you'd see a satellite dish.Yea...people in kampung watch ASTRO~!! I was surprised of course, at a place where there's no wireless reception, people are that in-touch with technology~! :P Probably I'm the "ulu" one in that case.
Alrite...that would be all to blog about.
It's interesting what you get to see on the road. Besides the animals running around or strolling along the road, people driving in the car also has their own "activities". I just happen to see a guy reading while driving~! With his book on the steering and his earphone plugged in, he was cruising the highway...I wonder if the concentration is really that good and he could really multitask. My partner was eating her brownies while cruising the highway. All I could do was drink water while I drive. Not good at multitasking when driving, even tuning the radio will distract my concentration. :P Takes experience to do that I suppose...or I'm just that bad.
Talking bout animals...each site visit is like a visit to the "open zoo". The most common animals that I've seen are chickens, cows, goats and monkeys. These animals are always in sight. Other animals are like wild boars, goose, ducks, monitor lizards, dogs, cats, squirrels, snakes and eagle! Well, as much as I'd like to see them running around happily enjoying themselves, a lot of times I'd see them dead on the road resulted from been ran over by lorries or big trucks. Kinda sad, I was at this site the other day, I managed to avoid the lizard that decided to cross the road that one particular day. By the time I turned back, that poor lizard was already dead. Another round on the same road, the poor lizard was squashed already. All that happened in less than an hour~! So all animals that crosses the free way are at this high risk of death. Can't help all of it, but will try to avoid all that crosses path with me....BUT BUT....think I killed one lizard the other day. Felt really bad...but I seriously did not see it and it was too late to avoid it. Oh well, guess would need to be alert of that next time.
Besides animals and people, seen many quite breath-taking sights The seasides, the caves, the moutains, and the trees~! The Gua Musang trip was interesting. The caves, just magnificent! We've been on some sites that's along the South China Sea. Interesting also. Sites at the east coast. The kampung sites are also an eye-opener. Don't play-play. People stay in wooden houses but on one particular corner of their roof, you'd see a satellite dish.Yea...people in kampung watch ASTRO~!! I was surprised of course, at a place where there's no wireless reception, people are that in-touch with technology~! :P Probably I'm the "ulu" one in that case.
Alrite...that would be all to blog about.
Saturday, October 08, 2005
Remembering birthdays~!
Oh dear...it's already October! And it's the birthday streak in early October. Most of the Librans are already so far away, so I guess the need of me joining any celebration is eliminated. I guess the feeling is great if you have people remembering your birthday and all. The best would be people celebrating it with you...but since most of them are already attached, guess they won't have problem finding for people to celebrate with them. So it comes back to the person I guess. To me, birthdays are a special occasion. To some other, birthday is just another day. So birthday is a day to treat myself better in all ways. And I think this year my bday falls somewhere near or during the Raya holidays. I'm fine with people who don't remember it, I guess I'm forgetting a lot of birthdays too. Not sure it's the part that I'm getting older or the part that I'm drifiting apart from everyone already. Yea, now I understand how being at work can drift someone apart...
Oh ya...talk bout work. Going to be packed up with sites for the coming week. So happy that September is gone. Don't think I'd mention this in my blog, but the end of Sept, got into this minor accident. Some car bang into my car, well, both side is at fault, but it really did freak me out then. Unlucky month, just hope that it's gone and never returns. And I've just got called for interview with this big company. Sigh...everyone is asking me to try it out, I'm also thinking about it and scheduled it to be on the Friday next week. You know, my current company is not that bad to start off with. Just the part I wanted more was the training. The benefits sounded okay since my team leader is still at his job till now.
So, it's a quiet Friday nite. I seriously should plan out something for weekend. Or just sleep through it...we'll see how things go tomorrow then. Getting a shut eye already.
Oh ya...talk bout work. Going to be packed up with sites for the coming week. So happy that September is gone. Don't think I'd mention this in my blog, but the end of Sept, got into this minor accident. Some car bang into my car, well, both side is at fault, but it really did freak me out then. Unlucky month, just hope that it's gone and never returns. And I've just got called for interview with this big company. Sigh...everyone is asking me to try it out, I'm also thinking about it and scheduled it to be on the Friday next week. You know, my current company is not that bad to start off with. Just the part I wanted more was the training. The benefits sounded okay since my team leader is still at his job till now.
So, it's a quiet Friday nite. I seriously should plan out something for weekend. Or just sleep through it...we'll see how things go tomorrow then. Getting a shut eye already.
Thursday, October 06, 2005
*Yawn* boring day at work...
So it's been 2 months ++ since I've started working. It has been fun...kinda enjoy the traveling when you get to see a lot of stuff that you wouldn't thought you'd see in a million years...well...not that long I guess, at least I wouldn't have thought I'd travel so far for work. So it's been east-coast to southern of the Peninsular of course. Being a female restricted myself from traveling to East Malaysia, Already said and no changes would be made, yea...he did say something bout him being sexist but since he's doing it for the safety of us, guess I should be thankful.
Anyways...been interesting to visit to other states also. C'mon, who'd imagine, me, someone who doesn't even step out of the house for like weeks and suddenly I'm around peninsular Malaysia going here and there. Hmm...people are really envious of my job.. Frankly, the job, is not that hard, it's just taking a lot of time especially when you travel. Don't think I have anything nice to upload at the moment. No nice pics, no time to take nice pics.
Sigh..gonna make this short. Going to go off soon enough. I'll write when I get in tomorrow. Just thought I'd write since so free now.
Anyways...been interesting to visit to other states also. C'mon, who'd imagine, me, someone who doesn't even step out of the house for like weeks and suddenly I'm around peninsular Malaysia going here and there. Hmm...people are really envious of my job.. Frankly, the job, is not that hard, it's just taking a lot of time especially when you travel. Don't think I have anything nice to upload at the moment. No nice pics, no time to take nice pics.
Sigh..gonna make this short. Going to go off soon enough. I'll write when I get in tomorrow. Just thought I'd write since so free now.
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