Meeting boys...erm...MEN

It was a weekend of nothing accomplished, except continuing watching TVB Drama and supposedly CNY shopping which ended up only buying a book~!! Totally not CNY related. And then, my friend, J told me the story of her date the night before:

Characters: J and HSL
First version of the story(She wasn't comfortable of telling all since we had another company with us)

J met HSL on the internet in a friend-finding program. They corresponded through email and exchanged numbers. Was supposed to meet last week, but she got caught up with work that time. So they finally met on Saturday for dinner. Dinner was okay, then after that J suggested Genting. So they went. Stepped into a disco there, danced. They came down from Genting about 2am+. She reached home at 3+am.

Second version of the story(It's me and her alone)

J met HSL on the internet in a friend-finding program. They corresponded through email and exchanged numbers. Was supposed to meet last week, but she got caught up with work that time. So they finally met on Saturday for dinner. He started making moves on her during dinner.Then after that, thinking that it's too bored to do anything in town, J suggested Genting. So they went. HSL occasionally tried to whisper to her ears and taking the chance to lick her ears. They stepped into a disco there,filled with a lot of foreiners. They were dancing and HSL was very "forceful" with his dance moves. Especially pulling J's hand to him and pushing his little friend down there on her. They came down from Genting about 2am+. HSL suggested to J to go up to his house with a promise that nothing will happen. She being a little terrified then of course said no and he dropped her back at her car. She reached home at 3+am. While on the road, she was followed by 3 cars which was on her left, right and back.

MY thoughts:

1) It's good that she mentioned about the date to me the day before, well, at least a friend knows what's happening IF there's something to happen.

2) It was a foolish move to let your guard down when going out with someone that you just met. She should have brought a weapon at least.

3) Another foolish thing was continuing on with the date although she knew HSL intentions were bad. She said she might just be too desperate to be with someone.

4) Most men you meet these days, especially those you met online have only one intention when they meet you: SEX.

5) If she would have went up to HSL's house, she'll be date raped. She herself said it~!

6) If you all are still wondering, I don't know the name of the guy, HSL just stands for none other than HAM SAP LOU~!

With that said, seems like the possibility that I meet a decent guy in the coming year would be close to zero? Will let fate to decide, let's hope I don't get into a situation that my friend got into...She was still a little shaken up after the whole incident.

Spring is here?

I'm just waiting for the CNY mood to kick in....I wonder how long it'll take. Probably when I really start with the spring cleaning is when it'll come. So let's see the checklist for stuff to do before CNY:

1) Clean up my room/house ...... Negative
2) Buy CNY biscuits ......Negative
3) Decorate the house .....Negative
4) Shop for new clothes.... Negative
5) Shop for present for parents ... Negative

Sigh...nothing is done~! It;s less than a month to CNY~!!!! But one thing I know, my dad will be coming back before CNY to do the stocking up of food stuff. Hmm..by then I hope my room will be cleaned! Always wonder how I can live with the messiness( is there such word?? ).

I'll be getting my biscuits today...haha, at least some thing done in that checklist. Next is to get stuff that I can hang around the house. Year of the Boar, according to the PDF file, it's going to be a good year for the Dog people, haha, it says I'll meet my prospective lover this year too. Something to look forward to?? Don't know.. says the same thing every year. Till then, will continue listening to my ultimate CNY combo song to get into the mood

Rainy days

Been raining a lot lately...kinda brings down the mood to do anything...yea..ANYTHING at all (suppose to spring clean since CNY is like ..less than a month~!! ) Well, parents thought of going to China for CNY, but plan cancelled coz of too last minute and this year will be spending CNY in Klang.

To start, proud to say I've completed one book that I bought recently. Working on the 2nd book now... still a lot of books to cover...accumulated from last year. :P Working towards resolution #4 or #3...doesn't matter...just need to complete as much books I can~!

Oh ya..bout the toll hike, well, I've decided to just give that Rm2.20. Too lazy to go all the way, calculating the time, the petrol, the bad road conditions... I've no choice after all.

Ohh Ohh...got my haircut over the weekend..nothing new, just had it trimmed :p Just only knew that my hairdresser shifted and she's been there for 5 months already...hmmm..seems like forever since my last haircut. Need to update my mom later. It's another 26 days to CNY, haven't done anything...imagine if my mom was around at home, she'll be going all naggy and excited with the coming new year...sighh...it's sooo quiet at home. Let's hope the spirits up by next week...clean clean clean...need to get CNY stuff also...will wait for dad for that.

Looks like my survivor download is done..and i shall be signing off...

Happy New Year 2007!!

Happy New Year~!! Yea, the new year is finally here...

Recap on 2006:

1) Met a really cool bunch of friends thus Kura-Kura gang was formed.
2) Clubbed more than before~!
3) More family gatherings for this year
4) Became an aunt to 2 more nieces
5) Travelled more to Singapore than ever before
6) Completed a project at work - travelled to Penang too much till can memorise all main roads~!
7) Started playing CS and slowly got addicted to it
8) Shopped more than before~!
9) Didn't get a bf yet
10) Backyard got broken in and wash basin was stolen
11) Attended 2 weddings, 1 ROM ( yea..adding another sis-in-law~!)
12) Met up with old friends from uni.
13) Got my confirmation at work..which means my 3-year countdown starts ( Come March, it'll be 1 year~~!!! )
14) Lived alone majority of the time at home for the past year
15) Lost and gained weight throughout the whole year...sigh, back to square one
16) Ate more range of stuff this year..as in those restaurants that I've never visited last time.
17) Updated my blog
18) Sony Ericsson W550i got stolen, replaced with Motorola E398
19) Got so stressed at work that I broke down
20) Got closer to my colleagues..it's a fun bunch now - went to A Famosa together
21) Mom got into the hospital and thank god she's alrite now
22) Had 4 birthday celebrations the past year
23) Went for SPA~! My first experience...

Alrite...can't really think much already. ..should be all lar. And the new year resolution:

1) Diet...sigh..so hard to get the motivation for this
2) Finish reading all the books that I had left unread or half way read
3) Travel to somewhere...haven't decided on this yet
4) Shop less, save more
5) Do something out of the ordinary ...at least one thing, still trying to narrow down some stuff that I can do :P

Don't really dare to have so many resolutions since most of it might take a lot to achieve...but I think I achieved one of last year's resolution which is to update my blog. so...yippee to that~!

and the start of the new year was the date for the toll hike. Now have to divert my route, and I'd need to wait till 730 to leave office..let's hope the jam already ease.