A wedding to remember..

Congratulations again Beverly and Hadi. It was indeed a wedding to remember. Thanks for the hospitality and I'm very glad to be part of the celebration~!

So this has become one of the grandest wedding that I've ever attended. The romantic setting, the closeness of the family bond, the touching speech, the lovely wedding dresses, the beautiful and handsome mempelai~ :) Food was excellent too!

In the midst of sorting out the pictures. Sharing this one first. :)

My fan...My fan~~~

Sigh, it has become a pattern everytime that my family leaves, one electrical appliance/item will just stopped working...

This time around is the living hall fan~ It just stopped.....not moving, probably the motor has died, overused over the past 5 days. Thank God it rained, I'd be crying over the heat if it didn't.

Last year the fridge died, then the TV... now the fan. I'll need to wait for daddy to return to get it fixed. In the mean time, I'll need to depend on the good ol' table fan.

CNY CNY..Celebrations of spring~

Hullo~~ Happy CNY to everyone!

Been a tiring CNY since day 1. Now that it's day 3, everything is settling down and the relatives visiting will also come to a halt ... considering my bro is returning tmr, and none of them are that interested to visit me here when my mommy n daddy is not around, so, it's finally time for FRIENDS and probably some..erm...money-making activities!

Not too bad of a celebration this year...kinda hectic with the whole visiting schedule, I might give Sg a miss this year too. It's going to be dinner on the 18th, 19th and visiting on the 19th, 20th, and 21st. So, pretty packed up schedule too~

Happy also la..this year I didn;t get any questions that's related to marriage ... :P Well, there was one who was asking me bout being attached. My dad was making some comments this year. First was asking me to find one and not being too picky...Next was him suggesting that I have my wedding dinner at one particular restaurant that we had dimsum in. My mom was...SURPRISINGLY saying that it's not that big deal that I'm still single, hmmm...totally didn't expect that. Haha, guess she has given up on the whole idea that I would be married off after the long wait. :P

Can't wait for reunions and birthday meet-ups. Kura2 is at least turning...2 or 3..or 5. Lost track of time. So, enjoy the rest of the holidays! To those who needs to start work tmr, have a pleasant week ahead!

One of those days..

It was a sad and demotivating morning. Not sure why, probably it is one of those days that the question "Why am I still here?" kinda pops up in my head...

Working with a demotivated bunch is not helping..feeling the holidays is not helping either...why why why??? I just need a break la...

So, next week I'll be moving office, will be in the same area, but maybe the change of environment will help a little in boosting the morale ( crossing my fingers and just wishing ... )

Can't wait for the weekend...

Ji Muis

Tomorrow's the day.... Mun Leng will be marrying Adrian. Let's hope for a great wedding ahead. Congratulations to both of you!!



Mun Leng's bachelorette meet-up at Funa Sushi, Klang... :) Initially we had this super great plan..but last minute got cancelled. Anyway, this is our first ji mui getting married. Next in line is Beverly and coming along should be Chin Jie. Whoever who wants to cut in in the middle is more than welcome. :)

So will look forward to tmr.. :)

A Note To A Dear Friend

Dear friend,

Don't know how to start this ... coz I know I haven't been a good friend to you. I apologize for not being there, I loath myself for drowning myself with work when such bad thing happened. I'm not really sure what went on till you've changed so drastically.When I first knew you back in uni, you're one of the cheerful ones; full of life and energy. I hate how things turned out over the year for you. You have drowned yourself away from your friends, you have kept yourself in misery.

I need to tell you that all your friends are concerned and worried. Therefore there is that few things you MUST do for yourself. First of all, GET UP! Pick yourself up. Find yourself again! Life should be worth living once again, face the new obstacles, get beaten down by new challenges and rise up again. Another thing that you NEED to do is get in touch with your friends. They are worried sick, and you're just too selfish to be thinking that you need space and time and phasing yourself out.

Friend, what's past shall be forgotten and it's time to move on. I really hope that you can wake from it and stand up tall again. I long for the day that the cheerful you to return.

Your friend,
YL

2009 recap and 2010 wishes

Oh wow..been ages since I did any blogging since Facebook came along... and it's 2010. Still in January, still safe to wish everyone a Happy New Year~ May this year brings better increments, opportunities and also good luck to those who decides to tie the knot this year!

So what have I been up to? Simple summary would be...work, work and work. Traditionally, I should do some recap thingy...

Alrite...since Sept, I went on a holiday with the kura-kura gang to Krabi in Oct. Nice getaway, sun, sea...not so much on the beach though. 4 days 3 night that went by really quick. Nov, nothing much this year. Quiet year, didn't really celebrate my birthday, was working on my birthday. Had lunch with my colleagues, ended up in Zouk with my colleagues..and bump into another colleague! :P Then there was the routine standing up on the chair..this year i didn't fail to sing Twinkle Twinkle again! :P Then there were some dinners with friends too.. Oh ya..my baby niece, Jia Xuan, arrived, not sure I mentioned. Went down to Sg for her full moon. Baby Ahslynn is now all grown up! She's like 4 this year and she talks a lot. Baby Weng Kei is also getting very talkative at the age of 4. Weng Yan is currently in Primary 1. OMG~~Where did time fly...I didn't even see them crawl..and now they are all running around!!!! (which makes photoshoot a bit difficult)

Dec..was a month of weddings...Siew Theng and Cheng Khoon to start off the month. Oh ya...KF got married too on 27th Nov. All vegetarian dinner in KEC. ST & CK's was in Penang. Lovely wedding for the lovely couple. Did the ji mui thingy too...had a great time. Thanks ST & CK for the hospitality~! Lots of people got married.. Niam ( didn't get to attend ) too. 26th was YinHau's. Went all the way to Pahang for his luncheon. One happy man...frankly, one of the few "underdogs" to get married first :P But am happy for him! :)

Seems to be all good throughout the end of the year of 2009. Just some minor issues here and there. Overall...2009 was a learning year. I learn to take up some responsibilites, I learn to prioritize,I learn some lessons on the business...ok la..most the learning was at work. Socially...hmm..I've made some new friends. Potentials to marry off with? Nehh...still long way for that to happen. So what to look forward in 2010?

2010 would be a year of more tests...I need to make sure that I can endure till the end. Lots of new task at hand, new KPIs to meet that's work wise. Others..I guess it will be the usual catching up during weddings and gatherings. I foresee more wedding invitations coming in this year, despite the whole hoo-haa bout getting married during the Tiger year.

So...that's all I have to say...erm..type for now.

Moving on...

Hmm..breakup season seems to be sipping in...

If you're going through one...my advice is... move on. Lots of things waiting for you out there. Doesn't matter if you're 20 or even 40..life has too many things to be enjoyed. First thought that one must always keep in mind, this is not a matter of life or death. Definitely not a good reason to choose suicide when your lover leaves you. It'll be too stupid to pull that one off... I might not know the reasons for you guys to call things off; I definitely would not know how deep you guys feel for each other, but what I know is that there's definitely no reasons to hang on to something that has already lost meaning and feeling...everyone need to realize that there's many more things to look forward to~

You just need to get back on ur feet...give yourself time and TIME is the great healer of all! :) All the best to you my friends.. :)

Sad notes aside, would also take this opportunity to congratulate those that are getting married/registered this month! Cherish each other and enjoy the ride~~

New toys

Ahh..what better way to spend the long weekend...SPLURGE~!

Got a new toy ..and finally my own Monopoly set~! Caught my attention when it went for a really CHEAP price, so why not just grab one back to play with...kinda forgot how to play this game, anyone with instruction manuals? Guess no instruction books for fake sets.. :P My Monopoly set

What's inside the box

The board game

How nice if these were real

The el' cheapo Styrofoam hotels

Hehe..just another shot of the board

And all this for? ...RM12.90~!!

Coz..made in China mar...

I'll probably start playing with it when I get bored with my other toys la.. haha..what a weekend!!

End of July????

Gosh...so fast and it's close to end of July. Crap..my deadlines are screwed!

Anyway, just waiting for my not-so-big break. I wonder how long it takes to get it all done and over with. :) Something to look forward to I guess.

I'm off to land down south this weekend. Wanna take a short trip to run away from all the insanity till i get back to it next week! Gosh~!

Sigh, do take care everyone.Flu season..getting kinda serious with the H1N1 and first death case. :)

Tiring tiring

I'm doing this at 3am! Waiting for my data to be processed..which is taking forever~ I'm gonna need heavy dosage of caffeine later when I get to office. This is so sad~

Oh well, my big break seemed to have shoved aside. Sigh, why oh why?~! Still waiting for confirmation on whether it's possible to get it up a few notches. Taking up more responsibility in the office, it's getting heavier... and probably the right time to throw that letter. Tiring... I wonder how I can survive tmr with such hectic schedule...

Sigh..time to sleep I guess.... no need to worry bout stuff till daylight...Getting a bit sick..a bit worried. Hope everyone's doing fine.

Changing lanes

The time has come~ let's hope it comes true~

This time I guess I'll be more certain and I will make sure I don't cry when I do it. Hahha...too emo dy the last time I attempted it.

Just praying for the best and let's hope things will go my way! Keeping fingers and toes crossed.

OOoooo ...Quiet time....

Not that hectic at work suddenly. Waiting for the next wave.

So it was report card day yesterday...and it was an "A"! Yea, they have this evaluation kinda thing from the main con. Kinda proud of the team also. So that's happy news. Sad part is don't have enough $$ to buy my team a good meal. Probably wait for the $$ to come in before I call for celebration.

Ok...stealing sometime at work to update this. Will do this another time..

Alrite people, take good care of yourselves~ Flu virus is around you, take precautions~

Learning to adapt

Life is indeed a learning curve. You live, you learn. Yea. So getting a bit used to this new found position. Let's you feel how it's like being in the position of power also how it sucks when things go bad and all fingers point to you. I'm going through all of it the same time.Yes, it sucks when things don't go the way I want it. Sigh..

So life's been pretty much about work. I hate that I'm so slow to pick up things. My 3 month deadline is here. So where do I stand? I'll know when it comes to the end of the month. Need to buck up and fix some problems. Sigh, I should stop saying I hate it and move towards making things better.

Anyway, I'm getting another niece~ Definitely something to shout about. I can imagine them growing up together and having fun, having fights, sharing gossips, shopping.. something I never had when I was growing up...oh well, happy news is always welcome to cover the gloom... let's hope for a better tomorrow.

Looking at the world with different perspective

Yes, time to change how I view things. Taking account for all that I'd taken for granted. Yes, things need to be changed ... Hope it's not too late. I don;t feel as stressed today though...

Don't want to sing "Rainy days and Mondays always bring me down" ... Need to tune it up to a happier tune. Things will be alright... there is cure...

Life challenges...

Yes, life is filled with it...

I hope she's well, I hope she's good, and I wish to tell her that I want to spend more time getting to know her. Yes, this is what a family should be. But deep down I know she's more afraid of this than me... I hope she'll get through this and all the best wishes in the world for her. It's going to be a tough and painful road ahead. I refuse to feel pessimist now, it's only the early stages, I'm too afraid to think of the worse.

Another emotional challenge it is...

Mixed emotions

Crazily jumbled up feelings..damn emo these days thinking bout lots of stuff, what to do?, am i doing it right?, can i do this? ... i need someone/something to tell me it's gonna be alright, things will fall into place,or just screw it~!

Sighh....i want to turn n run away from all this. Can I ? yea, this is me being immature and avoiding from responsibilities...i'm only human, and still young...i don;t want to grow up...definitely not this soon!

Happy Chinese "Niu" Year 2009

I just realised I forgot to wish everyone Happy Chinese New Year. May this new year brings everyone good health, wealth and luck in everything; be it career, lovelife, family or friendships. :)

Check this vid out:

Something really cute

A very cute ad :)

Happy Chinese New Year?

Will take sometime for me to sort my Hong Kong trip pics...so in the mean time..let me ramble on other things.. :P

CNY is just around the corner..sooooo near you can feel the CNY air looming around everywhere...CNY music blaring over the airwaves, shopping malls...
so..what's my preparation for it? DAMN sad wei...

1. I'm not done cleaning,
2. I only bought like a small portion of cookies,
3. I have lots of paper to recycle..but i dunno where to send them to,
4. I have not changed the car backlights that I have broken,
5. I have not decided whether I want to resign or stay,
6. I have not went for the interview that I was suppose to go,
7. I did not send any CNY cards this year,
8. I have not finish the work that I'm suppose to before CNY,
9. I have not paid my bills,
10. I'm wondering why I have not completed the 8 things i listed.

ARGHH..hate this..

I'm just not ready for the celebration